by DavidFraser | Sep 17, 2013 | Influence, Learning, Personal Mastery, Relationship Skills
You and your unconscious. How have you been getting along lately? I’m serious. You’re like two people: One being your conscious mind, and the other that person in the background who actually runs most of your life, and your relationships with other people for that...
by DavidFraser | Aug 7, 2013 | Change, Leadership, Personal Mastery, Wisdom
It’s a big step to believe that what we experience “out there” is a reflection of what we have “in here.” Such a big step, that the implications continue to dawn on us throughout our lives even after we’ve accepted the basic...
by DavidFraser | Mar 10, 2013 | Change, Relationship Skills
Probably, yes. It seems we’re conditioned to expect complicated answers to problems. And yet, when it comes to issues relating to other people, it’s often the simple things that make the difference—sometimes so simple they seem hard to get hold of at all, almost not...
by DavidFraser | Jan 20, 2013 | Learning, Personal Mastery, Wisdom
In fact, it probably is. We tend to dismiss new input which doesn’t fit with our view of things, simply because it doesn’t feel right. Our unconscious tells us something is “off”. “Intuitively” we know something else to be true. Or...
by DavidFraser | Nov 21, 2011 | Leadership, NLP, Personal Mastery, Relationship Skills
…and respond to them too, including the ones you say to yourself. This might seem like an arcane linguistic curiosity. The truth is it’s both highly practical and a very big deal. Loosely speaking, an “embedded command” is a part of a sentence which if taken on...
