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Resolution wasn’t built in a day

Resolution wasn’t built in a day

Our inclination is to think that it should be possible to resolve issues, disagreements, and even conflict in one go—in a day perhaps. Sometimes, no doubt it is, if we can bring enough goodwill and expertise to bear. Other times, we may only be able to proceed part...

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The value of validation

The value of validation

Of course, it’s good to make up our own mind about whether something we’re doing is right or not. Nevertheless, a bit of external validation is still very welcome. We can seek it out ourselves, for our own needs. But what about other people—those we have reason to...

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Connection or fluency?

Connection or fluency?

Which is more important: being fluent or being connected with your audience i.e. the other party? Traditionally, we pay a lot of attention to being fluent, even organising many aids to make sure we can join words together in a smooth and flowing way. Actually... It...

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The problem of filtering

The problem of filtering

Sometimes we need to conduct a relationship through a third party. For example, we might be supplying something to our customer's customer, and need to discern indirectly what they require. Unfortunately, the person or organisation in the middle may not be that...

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Dangerous questions

Dangerous questions

Been reading Daniel Kahneman’s excellent and very useful “Thinking, Fast and Slow”... He says: If asked a difficult question we don’t know the answer to, we will normally pick an easier one we do have an answer to, and provide the answer to that one instead. And we do...

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Taking people along with you

Taking people along with you

It's remarkable how often this comes up as a theme: the challenge of getting a group of people on board with a course of action. Our natural inclination is often that the hard task in a situation is working out what to do and the easy bit is taking other people along...

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If we let go of the big goal…

If we let go of the big goal…

It's seem slightly paradoxical, doesn't it? If we put our big goal out of our mind and just focus on getting small things done, it's easier to take those minor steps—to do the mundane. And so we make more progress towards our main objective. The tasks we put in hand...

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